Archive for August, 2008

Let Me Love You Well, if Not Too Long

Sunday, August 31st, 2008

Let me love you well, if not too long,
For passion is a lover of fresh air,
Relishing the landscape that is there,
Belonging to what must to all belong.
Let me make you part of my sweet song,
As I will be of yours, that both more fair
May part, enriched by what we share,
More seized by life, more gentle, and more strong.
For passion is a gift one should not squander:
For fear of loss, losing life’s best joy,
The ecstasy that we were meant to feel.
And if it comes and goes, then we must wander,
Enjoying what we’re given to enjoy,
Reveling in what our loves reveal.

HOW WE MISS OUT SOMETHING CALLED LIFE

Tuesday, August 26th, 2008

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle
open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle
fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

QUESTIONS :
1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?

ANSWER :
The husband just said “I am with you Darling”

The husband’s totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child.  What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. ” A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness,
selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

MORAL OF THE STORY:

This story is really worth reading. ….. Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job
or
with the people we know.
By this way we miss out something called L.I.F.E.

Flash To Installable Wallpaper

Friday, August 22nd, 2008


Flash Wallpaper converts a Flash (.swf) file into a distributable desktop item like installable wallpaper. It’s easy to create installable wallpaper using Flash Wallpaper.  The End users not require to install any flash plugin to run on their desktop. Flash Wallpaper supports SWF created using any software including Macromedia Flash 4, Flash 5 and Flash 6/MX, Flash MX 2004. Users can specify additional resource files required by the Wallpaper E.g. swf, txt, xml, mp3 etc.

Licensing: FREE for personal use. Commercial licensing prices start at $49.95.
Home: http://www.tenmiles.com/flashwallpaper/index.php
Download: http://www.tenmiles.com/downloads/fwsetup.exe
Platform: For Win95/98/Me/NT4/2000/XP

HJSplit FileSplitter & Joiner

Thursday, August 21st, 2008


HJSplit is a most popular freeware file-splitting & joiner programs available for many platform. HJSplit enable you to split large file into smaller chunks, which can be easily join and can be sent anywhwere using email program. All versions have backward and forward compatibility and allow exchange of files between different platforms. E.g. a file split on the Linux can be joined on Windows and vice versa.

Featured

  • Support large number of platform that other similar program do not support.
  • Java version available to enable you to use program on any platform.
  • Support large file upto 10GB or more.
  • No installation required.
  • Tiny size can be run from external media.

Home: http://www.freebyte.com/hjsplit/
Dowload: www.freebytesoftware.com/download/hjsplit.zip
Linux Version: http://www.treepad.net/download/hjsplitlx.tar.gz
Dos Version: http://www.freebyte.com/download/hjspl16.zip
Java Version: http://www.freebyte.com/download/hjsplit/hjsplit_g.jar
MAC Verson: http://www.xs4all.nl/~loekjehe/Split&Concat/
Platform: Windows 3.x/95/98/ME/2000/NT/XP, DOS, Amiga, Java

Free DVD Creator For Windows

Wednesday, August 20th, 2008


DeVeDe is a program to create video DVDs and CDs (VCD, SVCD or CVD), suitable for DVD players, from any number of video files. Many different video formats are supported (mpeg, mpeg4, avi, asf, youtube and google flash videos, wmv, ogg, etc…). DeVeDe is an open source program and is free for all use.

Features

  • Preview Video with selected settings
  • Save disc structure to convert at a later time
  • Ability to check for updates
  • Menu option to view documentation
  • Create
    • Video DVD
    • Video CD
    • Super Video CD
    • CVD
    • DIVX / MPEG-4
  • Menu – DVD
    • Action to Perform when Title ends
      • Stop reproduction/show disc menu
      • Play the first title
      • Play the previous title
      • Play current title again (loop)
      • Play the next title
      • Play the last title
    • Menu Options
      • Choose custom background
      • Choose PAL/SECAM or NTSC format
      • Customize menu font
      • Preview menu
      • Option for no menu
  • DVD Options
    • Convert only to MPEG
    • Convert only to disc structure
    • Convert to ready to burn ISO file
    • Choose 1.4 GB, 4.7 GB, or 8 GB DVD
  • Video Information
    • Original size (pixels)
    • Final size (pixels)
    • Length (seconds)
    • Estimated length (MBytes)
    • Output aspect ratio
    • Frames per second
    • Video rate (Kbits/sec)
    • Audio rate (Kbits/sec)
    • Size of chapters
  • Video Properties
    • Set video rate (Kbits/sec)
    • Set audio rate (Kbits/sec)
    • Output video format as PAL/SECAM or NTSC
    • Set Final video size to:
      • 720×576
      • 704×576
      • 480×576
      • 352×576
      • 352×288
      • Default
    • Choose scaling mode
    • Can choose to use 16:9 aspect ratio
  • Quality Options
    • Trellis search Quantization
    • MacroBloc decision algorithm
    • Deinterlacing
  • Audio Options
    • Delay audio (in seconds)
    • Create DVD with 5.1 channel sound
    • Specify video already has AC3 sound
  • Subtitles
    • Add subtitles from sub and srt formats
    • Choose encoding type of subtitles file
    • Ability to raise subtitles above black bars (if chosen in scaling)
  • Misc Video Options
    • Split video file in chapter (for easy seeking). Defaults to 5 minutes per chapter.
    • Specify video file is already DVD suitable MPEG-PS file
    • Use a GOP of 12 frames (this improves compatibility)
    • Option to specify extra parameters for mencoder (DeVeDe back end)
Size: 20566 KB
Platform: Windows 2000, Windows XP, Windows 2003, and Windows Vista.

Winsplit v1.0.8

Wednesday, August 20th, 2008

WinSplit is a light weight file splitting/joining application for windows platform. Winsplit is a file splitter with a very small memory footprint, allows user to split files in 3 different ways, and join them back. It also support advance features like batch-file generation and CRC checking.

Home Page: http://www.unganisha.org/home/pages/winsplit/
Download: http://www.unganisha.org/home/files/winsplit/winsplit.zip
Size: 23 KB

If A Girl Wears A Unique Dress

Tuesday, August 19th, 2008

If a girl laughs, she is a jolly fellow
If a man laughs, he is manner less.

If a girl talks too much, she is witty
If a man talks too much, he is a chatterbox.

If a girl loves silence, she is serious
If a man loves silence, he is dull.

If a girl wears a unique dress, she is smart
If a man does so, he is a joker.

If a girl eats too much, she is promoting
If a man eats too much, he is a glutton.

If girls move together, they form a company
If men move together, they form a gang…!!!

इस दोस्ती को कभी अलवीदा ना कहना

Wednesday, August 13th, 2008

ऐसा दोस्त चाहीय जो हमे अपना मान सके,
जो हमारा दील को जान सके,
चल रहे हो हम तेज़ बारीश मे,
फीर भी पानी मे से आँसुओ को पहचान सके!!!!

ख़ुश्बू की तरह मेरी सांसो मे रेहना……
लहू बनके मेरी नसनस मे बेहना,
दोस्ती होती है रीस्तो का अनमोल गेहना………..

इसलीय इस दोस्ती को कभी अलवीदा ना कहना.

याद आए कभी तो आँखें बंद मत करना……………..

हम ना भी मीलें तो गम मत करना!!!!
जरूरी तो नही के हम नेट पर हर रोज़ मीलें
मगर ये दोस्ती का एहसास कभी कम मत करना…………………..

दोस्ती उन से करो जो नीभाना जानते हो……………
नफ़रत उन से करो जो भूलना जानते हो…………….
ग़ुस्सा उन से करो जो मनाना जनता हो………..
पयार उनसे करो जो दील लुटाना जानताहो………..

अपना तो फ़र्ज़ है उन्हें प्यार करते रहना

Wednesday, August 13th, 2008

यूं तो प्यार करने वाले तुम्हें कम न मिलेंगे,

मिल जाएंगे हम जैसे बहुत ,,, पर हम न मिलेंगे.

उन्हें भूलने की कोशिश की मैंने,

दिल ने कहा याद करते रहना…

वो हमारे दर्द की फरियाद सुने न सुने,

अपना तो फ़र्ज़ है उन्हें प्यार करते रहना….

ज़िंदगी से भी प्यार हो जाता है

Wednesday, August 13th, 2008

माना की प्यार का पहला अक्षर अधूरा है,

लेकिन ‘प’ को निकल दो तो यार रह जाता है

और आप जैसा यार हो

तो ज़िंदगी से भी प्यार हो जाता है